This blog entry is about 3 weeks late... The month of April contains one of Okinawa's most sacred of observances. It is known by Okinawans as "Shimi" and it involves bringing family members together in front of the family tomb to have a meal together with the spirits of those family ancestors who have past away. In Okinawa, the tombs are like small stone houses. In the old days they used to hold the bones of those loved ones who had past away. They were also used extensively in WWII to provide shelter for Okinawans caught in the middle and trying to survive the "typhoon of steel", a combination of Japanese and US mortar shellings, bullets, grenades and shrapnel that killed so many in those days.
(Matsuda Family Tomb Engraved Head Stone)
(The 2008 Matsuda Family Gathering)
First, money is presented to the tomb and ceremonially burned as an offering to the deceased. Nowadays, real money is not used. They use special napkins that symbolize money. These napkins are burned as an offering to our ancestors. Then food and sake (usually the Okinawa spirit Awamori) is presented to the tomb and placed on an offering tray. Next to the food offering is a bowl of ash where incense is placed by each family member in attendance. One piece of incense is given to each family member, the incense is lit then placed in the bowl of ash. Prayers are then offered to the dead in which it is common to pray for protection from harm and a hope for future happiness for the family. The ancestors of the family are thought to be able to provide protection and guidance to the "living" family through supernatural means. In Okinawa, ancestors are worshipped in place of a God or Buddha. This form of ancestor worship probably has historic roots in China (I'm totally making an uneducated guess here) but is quite unique to Okinawa in terms of comparing it to the rest of Japan. The food is then distributed to the family in attendance who eat "together" with the ancestors. Many times, this same ritual is repeated in Okinawan households, especially during Shimi but also when relatives have come to visit who haven't been seen in quite sometime. For example, I remember them doing a ceremony for my mother and I when we visited Okinawa about 10 years ago. For them at the time, it was like reacquainting Yoshiko (my mother) to her deceased father, mother, and brother after all those years she had been away living in the US.
(Eldest Living Son - Katsuya Matsuda leads the ceremony byburning the money offering)
Well that's my shimi lesson for the day. You should really come to Okinawa and experience it first hand. In the month of July and August another way the Okinawa's praise their ancestors is evident in the local festivals. It's called Eisa Matsuri, and you can view it on the video bar to the right of the screen. Well, until next time!




1 comment:
Ken,
Thanks for the cultural lesson and family history. It's great to learn something about the cultural depths of another place and people. I think it helps us to understand our own culture better.
I think that respect for elders and ancestor "worship" is practiced to a greater or lesser extent in all cultures. My sense is that it reflects the wisdom that elders have acquired through life, and the concern for the good of the family they exhibit. For me elders probably have more of a systems perspective about life and family, and indeed may be a little wiser about how to live one's life "wisely." Ancestor "worship" comes naturally to me, i.e., I find myself consulting Joe, Ron, Mom, Dad and grandparents, uncles and aunts when I reflect on life and relationships. It's also a way of avoiding, and reacting to, the daily onslaught of day-to-day events and hype.
I hope you will take the opportunity in Okinawa to gather information on Yoshiko's family tree. I'd love to get more of her information posted on MyFamily.com.
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